Category Archives: Back in US

The Yin and Yang of Location

Just over a year ago – and I remember it very well – I was living in Mumbai. I remember writing about my umpteenth (three decades plus, if you must know) anniversary of first entering the US of A.  I also began wondering whether I would spend the next few years continuing to live in India or whether I would get the opportunity to return home to the US anytime soon.

I had reached the point where I yearned to return, not because I didn’t like it there so much as just that certain yearning that one gets for home. You know the one?  And while I yearned, at that time and place, it wasn’t that obvious when I would head back.

That unexpected, eye-opening experience, no immersion, of living in India is something I will always cherish. Even now, I can’t seem to be able to let go! I keep up (am addicted you could say) with what is happening in that country, alternatively feeling hope and despair as I watch events from afar.

But at that time, that yearning for my home in the US was not going anywhere fast.

And then just like that, quite out of the blue, a tremendous opportunity to return fell into my lap. I grabbed it. I’m not stupid. 😉

I just celebrated my first anniversary at home and was reflecting on how I really feel to be back.

It’s that location thing again – instead of just one home, I’ve been forced to have two. I know some people look at my going back and forth between the two  and wonder how or why I do it. If I dwell too much on only that back and forth motion, I can easily begin to wonder myself.  So, I look for everything that is going right for me and count myself lucky. And lo and behold, I find myself embracing my (crazy!) lifestyle instead.

It’s that yin and yang thing again – I have the hustle and bustle of a big city during the week and the quiet, calm and friends of my small town home during the weekends. I couldn’t ask for more. Plus, I still have my connections to India, stronger now than ever because of my stint there. Back there for work a few times each year gives me just enough time for great visits with family and friends too.

So on reflecting now, it begs the question, how could I be this lucky??  🙂

yin and yang of location

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“The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned”.

— Maya Angelou

All this Noise about Obamacare!

Let the games begin.

The government re-opened and a new war started.  Or was it the same, old war served up with new fervour?

All this hue and cry to defeat, undermine, damage, remove Obama!  Oops, did I say Obama?  I meant Obamacare.

Actually, they’re one and the same thing when it comes to the haters, right?

It’s actually the Affordable Care Act (ACA) but I wonder if and when people will start calling it that.  Next generation, perhaps?

I strongly believe Obamacare is going to survive and get stronger and better with time, as kinks and issues are worked out naturally. It has to!

It will survive despite the hateful spewing of right-wingers who want to see it (and Obama) just disappear. I will be so glad to see their utter disappointment when neither happens and people begin to embrace it instead. When, in fact, people see it as just another natural extension of every other service that the country offers its citizens and residents. Like most other countries in the world.

I found an incredibly useful resource that attempts to explain in very simple terms what the law (aah yes, let’s not forget…it’s the law!) is all about and what all the politics that surrounds it is all about as well. It’s a refreshing non-partisan and factual take on Obamacare and I recommend it highly if anyone cares to review some facts. If!

There’s so much mis-information floating around that it’s really worth the time, in my humble opinion.

Obamacare Explained Banner

Here are the table of contents that will give you an idea of why it can be useful (click on either image to read or download this guide).

obamacare guide table of contents

It’s not enough to have a law, however. It needs to be implemented well.

That’s where the Obama administration has (unnecessarily) so royally screwed up !

It’s a website, not rocket science! Why all the muck-ups? It’s like they’ve gone and added fuel to the fire of the enemy, and that, at the worst possible time!

Obamacare Cartoon

Still, this too shall pass.

One day (just like in Massachusetts), people who cannot afford healthcare today -in the most powerful nation in the world, no less – will be able to have the security that they too can get health insurance coverage.

One day soon.

For all the complaints and all the noise and all the naysayers, yes, I understand that the law (and its implementation!) is not perfect. We need to start somewhere though, because it’s so badly needed.

This hits close to home and I can give one of many, many, many (,MANY!) such real, human examples of why:

I have a friend and a previous colleague who has a heart condition for which he was being treated. Unfortunately, during the economic crisis that we are still trying to get out off, he was laid off. Worse, a few months later, as he was doing something as mundane as taking a walk, he suffered a severe, debilitating stroke.

Now, he has what’s called a “pre-existing condition”. Before this law, that simply meant that no health insurance will cover him. None.

What does someone like that do for healthcare when he no longer has a job or health insurance? What??!

I can think of so many such cases, but forget them. Just this one individual represents millions like him who live in this country.

And it’s one of the reasons why I get so high strung and emotional about this topic (more than normal, I mean :-)). And yes, I know that it does mean that many others (more fortunate than him) will have to pay more to cover all those who can now get accepted into insurance programs. But is that any reason to not take this step?

It’s way past time for the United States to offer affordable health care. [Check out this great infographic of how US healthcare compares to the sixteen other countries in the world and this one about the absurd healthcare costs in the US.

And finally, after many, many decades and many, many Presidents who tried and failed, we now have it.  

And, lest we forget, it is the law of the land (get over it, folks!). About time, I say.

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