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West Coast Ahoy?

“There is science, logic, reason; there is thought verified by experience. And then there is California.”   ― Edward Abbey

Sandiego Port

“It’s a scientific fact that if you stay in California you lose one point of your IQ every year.”
― Truman Capote

He he…not sure what provoked Capote to say that. I just hope he’s not right.

As I write this, I am on my way back East from a short sojourn in sunny San Diego. It was a business trip that was extended, covering the preceding weekend with fun, family and pleasure.

Traveling in the winter, going from a damp, cold and dreary East Coast to sunny California is a dramatic and radiant shock to the system – in the nicest possible way. It doesn’t hurt either that we have close family on the West Coast. In this particular case, the family in question has a gorgeous home and a deliciously well-stocked wine cellar – likely the best any one of my family members have. So. What’s not to like?

I’ve often wondered whether I will be able to leave my homes in the East to head West eventually. This trip I decided that it’s not really a matter of IF but WHEN. I’m in no hurry and I still have much to do where I am. But from where I sit now, it appears inevitable that I will take this momentous (for me!) step someday in the future. Honestly, the draw keeps getting stronger. And every time I visit for business or pleasure, it seems like the incentives grow rather than shrink.

These, btw, have nothing to do with beautiful weather (although the United States Weather Bureau describes San Diego’s weather as the closest thing to perfect in America) or fabulous cities (we have those in the East too!).

The attraction is actually much simpler than all of that. It boils down to one thing. Family.

And that’s the first time I’ve admitted the serious thought of a future move. Even to myself.

Quail_botanical_gardens in San Diego

“California is a place in which a boom mentality and a sense of Chekhovian loss meet in uneasy suspension; in which the mind is troubled by some buried but ineradicable suspicion that things better work here, because here, beneath the immense bleached sky,is where we run out of continent.”   ― Joan Didion



Photo credit:

“Sandiego 1 bg 071302”. Licensed under Public Domain via Wikimedia Commons –

By Bovlb (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 (, via Wikimedia Commons


The New DUI

I’m not exactly a timid driver. Exactly.  Early in the morning (very early!), if you see a car tailgating the slow moving vehicles on the left lane of Route 400 heading North, then there’s a good chance that it’s moi.

Unlike in Europe, where it is normal practice for the left lane to be used as a passing lane for fast vehicles only, in the good old US of A, that concept never quite took root. So, we have slow Mo chugging along at 55 miles per hour in the left lane – especially when I’m in a hurry. Like every darn morning. Poor slow Mo. Eventually, he moves over.

So, yes, I drive fast and often over the speed limit but when I’m driving, that’s all I’m doing. Fast but focused.


The other day, when I was heading in the other direction, early afternoon and in broad daylight, I saw another car going fast but it was also weaving from left to right and back in its lane. I thought the driver might be intoxicated. So what if it was broad daylight? It happens. But as I passed  the vehicle (of course, I passed) to avoid it’s back and forth motion, I happened to glance over. The guy had his smart phone on his lap and he was apparently reading and texting while driving.  

No, no, no! You can’t do that!

Check out these scary statistics.  Here’s one of the scariest:

Texting while driving makes a crash up to 23X times more likely.

It’s a big no-no for me, now more than ever after seeing some of these scary stats. The only texting you will find with me if I am driving is when I use Waze to navigate to an address that is already saved.  It’s not really texting but a couple of touches to select. And even that I try to do before I start driving. That’s enough, more than enough!

Texting_while_at_the_wheel_(4351110509): is the official U.S. Government site for distracted driving. Check it out.

And according to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA), texting while driving has been proven to be six times more dangerous than driving while intoxicated. Six times!

It’s time to ban, ban, BAN this!

People! Put away your darn cell phones. Unless you are in a chauffeur driven car or you are in one of Google’s driverless cars (which is apparently a mere 2 to 5 years away from reality).

Actually many states have banned texting while driving and others are on the same path.  

Yet people continue doing it. What is going to take to stop? A fatal crash that involves one of your loved ones?

Stop people! Life is too short as it is.  

Here’s another wake-up call (source: FCC):

  • The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration reported that in 2012 driver distraction was the cause of 18 percent of all fatal crashes – with 3,328 people killed – and crashes resulting in an injury – with 421,000 people wounded.
  • Forty percent of all American teens say they have been in a car when the driver used a cell phone in a way that put people in danger, according to a Pew survey.
  • Eleven percent of drivers aged 18 to 20 who were involved in an automobile accident and survived admitted they were sending or receiving texts when they crashed.
  • Seventy-one percent of teens and young adults say they have composed an SMS while driving.
  • Seventy-eight percent of teens and young adults say they have read an SMS while driving.
  • Five seconds is the average time your eyes are off the road while texting. When traveling at 55 mph, that’s enough time to cover the length of a football field blindfolded. (2009, VTTI)

There’s too much at stake here, for you and for me. You may not care but I have too many loved ones on the roads of this country every day. Any one of them could be harmed by your silly text. So, please stop.

And spread the word! This is the new DUI. Only much worse.



Photo credit:

Atlanta traffic: By Brett Weinstein from Scarsdale, NY, Atlanta, GA, London, UK (Clogged Arteries) [CC BY-SA 2.0 (, via Wikimedia Commons

Texting while driving: By Oregon Department of Transportation [CC BY 2.0 (, via Wikimedia Commons

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