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(Southern) Seasons

Aah, it’s Friday evening and it’s finally too chilly to sit on my balcony for any length of time. But it wasn’t too cold to enjoy a brisk hour long walk. That’s the nice thing about living where I do.

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It’s getting to be that time of year when even in the South, it’s out with the sweaters and light jackets.  As much as I am a tropical, summer-loving person, the change of seasons is a welcome affair.

Just one more reason to love the South – there’s really no such thing as a very bad, long winter. So, it’s easy to welcome the cool weather (generally a short-staying guest) and the changing seasons.  Everything is just right.

Just. Right.

You welcome a season, and just when you are getting tired of it, it changes. Like clockwork, and at just the right pace. [Well, in my opinion anyway].

I remember the two years that I was in Mumbai. The only season of any distinction was the monsoon.  And after two weeks, you just wished it to go away. The rest of the time, the climate was hot and humid. The only change was when it got hotter and more humid. [Curiously, my posts and pictures of Mumbai’s monsoon were very popular; it’s almost like all the people from Mumbai couldn’t get enough of it. Any many who were not in Mumbai during that time wanted to see just how bad it was…]

Back in the States, it was easy to get used to the summer months because they were really not much different from Mumbai. But, after a while, the change is relatively  dramatic. And welcome.

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Earlier this month, I was in New England during the absolute, perfect time. Not too cold but oh, those colors!  Fabulous.  But living there? Not me! I am not ready for those Yankee winters – snow, cold, ice, colder and then more of the same, for months on end.

It’s different here in the South, the pleasure of changing seasons is unmistakable but so very mild.

I know that people in Southern California (those weather snobs!) think there’s nothing better than their daily perfection. But, come on, day after day after day after day of sunny, dry, cool days…..how boring is that??! How you folks can even enjoy football season in that perfection is beyond me!   🙂

Come to the South instead.

You may end up in a red stateBut the wonder of our seasons is sublime – just the right stuff before they change again. Now, that’s perfection. You can even get over the fact that you are surrounded by red (rednecks and all).

Hey, being a minority is not that bad!

I love it here!

Hmmmm…but, of course, I loved Mumbai while I was there too, so yes, you may take that with a grain of salt. Maybe, it’s just life that I’m loving right now?

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An Indian-American Beauty (with Brains) Makes History

After living in Bombay and reading the newspapers there every day for a couple of years, it comes as no surprise to me that Indian women can be recognized for their beauty. And their brains. I used to often see pictures of stunning Indian women on the runway, in the movies or competing in various beauty pageants there.

So, the fact that an Indian could win a beauty pageant…big deal! Aishwarya Rai was Miss World and Sushmita Sen Miss Universe back in the days after all. And there were more as well.

Nina Davuluri – Miss America 2014

However, what gave everyone pause was that this particular Indian-American became Miss America, not Miss India nor a Miss “global”. It gave people pause – the many admirers and the few haters.

For the admirers, it was that this country was open and liberal enough that it could choose someone who looked so different from a “classic American” to be crowned as its beauty icon. The runner-up was also of Asian descent, Stanford graduate Miss California, Crystal Lee. And prior to this there have been other ethnic minorities who have won the competition, which is subjective at best.

[Now whether a country should even have a beauty icon is a topic for an entirely different discussion…].

For Indians here, it was the novelty of recognition beyond and so different from spelling bees, IT outsourcing, engineering and medicine.

The few haters, well, they had some hateful things to say but do we really care what ignorants, racists or bigots may think? They have already been given too much press, in my opinion. Best to just laugh it off as the exception that prove the rule.

The American cliche of everyone being equal, no matter what their origins, quietly and not so quietly continues to gather strength. For all of its faults, America is beautiful. And that is one reason why so many of us are staying put.

And here’s kind of the icing on the cake. There were comments from Indians who said that an Indian as dark skinned as the new Miss America would be hard-pressed to become Miss India, in a country that worships fairness. That’s food for thought. True but painful to hear.

Back to America…..did I say it? A country, for all of its faults that is beautiful enough for many of us. It’s all relative, isn’t it?

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